How can one overcome a broken heart?

Question: Guruji, how can one overcome a broken heart?

Guruji: "How to overcome a broken heart? How do you do that? (smiles) hmmmm...

Wake up and see the truth of life. What are you hanging on to? What breaks your heart? Someone's behavior, someone's words...haan?

Weakness of heart needs to be shunned and truth should be known.

What is truth? Everything in the world changes and everything is going to change, has changed, will change in the future...& you are going to drop your own body which you love so much.

All your life, all that you do, spend so much money, put the cream here, put the cream there (laughter), put the lipstick every two hours, every hour (laughter) and take care of your body...its not going to listen to you one day. You want to move your hand, you can't. You want to lift your eyes, you can't open your eyes, you want to say something, your tongue will not move...whole body will strike and then you simply have to exit (out) of this body. You exit dejected, frustrated because the body is totally rebellious to your commands. And the body will not listen, whatever you say, (whatever) you want to do.
And you have to exit and you exit, and you see its (the body) like a waste material...nobody would like to get into it again. (laughter)

Such is the truth of life. Everything is going to disappear, everybody is going to die. You are going to die, the person who broke your heart is going to die as well.

So, as long as you are are alive, wake up and do something good. Forget about it (broken heart). Be bold, courageous.

Oh...so and so said this thing. Oh...so and so did like this. Oh...so and so misbehaved...
What misbehaved? You needed it. That makes you strong.

Be like a lion. Roar like a lion.

...upset...oh...this gone...that gone...
Joy comes and goes, misery comes & goes. Your pleasure...you are hanging on to pleasure & your pleasure can't stay forever...sustain you all the time. So, pleasure, pain...all this comes and goes in life...what is the big deal about a broken heart?

Know for sure you love everybody and everyone loves you...whatever their words are...their behaviours are...
Never doubt in the love. Love is something like space, it can never diminish...it can never go away. Thats true love.

All this chattering of the mind...good for nothing. Don't waste your precious life in all that...Oh...I am broken heart, I am broken heart...

If your limbs get broken, you can put...what you call it...plaster?

The heart gets broken, you wake up, its never broken, its rubber.

Your heart...make it like rubber...not a glass. Glass heart can break with a little heat or little cold. Make your heart elastic like rubber and thats what knowledge does...transform your heart...transform your mind and transform your actions.

You should be feeling absolutely lucky to be in this knowledge...haan...isn't it? How many of you feel absolutely lucky?"